Confessions of a Funeral Director
By Caleb Wilde
How the Business of Death Saved My Life
We are a people who deeply fear death. While humans are biologically wired to evade death for as long as possible, we have become too adept at hiding from it, vilifying it, and – when it can be avoided no longer – letting the professionals take over.
Sixth-generation funeral director Caleb Wilde understands this reticence and fear. He had planned to get as far away from the family business as possible. He wanted to make a difference in the world, and how could he do that if all the people he worked with were…dead? Slowly, he discovered that caring for the deceased and their loved ones was making a difference – in other people’s lives to be sure, but it also seemed to be saving his own. A spirituality of death began to emerge as he observed:
- The family who lovingly dressed their deceased father for his burial
- The act of embalming a little girl that offered a gift back to her grieving family
- The nursing home that honored a woman’s life by standing in procession as her body was taken away
- The funeral that united a conflicted community
Through stories like these, told with equal parts humor and poignancy, Wilde offers an intimate look into the business and a new perspective on living and dying.
Genre: Reality Show
Themes: grief, loss, death, family, community life, tradition, blog, new release
Location: Wilde Funeral Home, Parkersburg, Pa
Caleb Wilde – partner in his family’s business, Wilde Funeral Home.
Bud Wilde – Caleb’s grandfather, and fourth generation funeral director at Wilde Funeral Home
Bill Wilde – Caleb’s father, and fifth generation funeral director at Wilde Funeral Home
Nicki Wilde – Caleb’s wife
Various families of Parkersburg, Pa (and the neighboring towns the funeral home serves)
Caleb Wilde is a partner at his family’s business, Wilde Funeral Home, in Parkersburg, Pennsylvania. He writes the popular blog Confessions of a Funeral Director and recently completed postgraduate work at Winchester University, England, in the program, “Death, Religion and Culture.” He has been featured in top media-outlets, including The Huffington Post, The Atlantic, and TIME magazine, and on NPR, NBC, and ABC’s 20/20.